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He does love nursing, he's just not very good at it. We have an appointment on Thursday morning to evaluate and probably go ahead with untying his tongue. The doctor we're seeing uses a laser scalpel, and I'll be able to nurse him right after. I hope he doesn't mind the physical therapy stretches we need to do until it heals.
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Perry is still too skinny. Looks like that tongue tie is going to get looked at this week and possibly (probably) fixed. I hope fixed. His is very much what one thinks of when tongue tie is mentioned: a V-shaped notch at the tip of his tongue. That kind of anterior tie tends to be easier to recover from when it's cut, with very good results for the kid re: ease of nursing. And the doctor uses laser scalpel vs blade, which has less reversion or need for secondary correction.I am still terribly worried. That it won't work, that it will hurt him too much, that it will somehow make things worse. But the weight loss is terrifying. My alternative is to stop nursing exclusively and pump for bottles, and I'm willing to revise, as they say, before taking that step. I am going to pump after every feeding to keep my supply up, and I may end up going that route too. I just don't want to add nipple confusion into the mix. I'm going to get a nursing supplementer as well.Anyway, gain weight, baby boy!
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Perry is down almost 10% of his birth weight. I suspect he has the same nursing issues as Clementine, Gloria and Abby – mild tongue tie and high palate. I've gone from "eh, he'll nurse when he's hungry" to active management. That means every two hours, buddy, I don't care how sleepy you are. That can ebb off when he's gaining steadily. Right now he just gets so tired nursing because he has to work harder. (My breasts have seemed unusually full also. He's just not transferring milk effectively.) I've handled this before, I can do it again. Get big and strong little man! #normalizebreastfeeding
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